Wonderful Ways to save Money. Part One

 

It is hard for people to grasp this truth, but the amount of money the housewife and homemaker can save is staggering. 

And Yes, I do believe it is possible to become a full time wife and homemaker in a modest income household, even today. Stay tuned.

I would like to make a whole series of posts, giving tips and ideas on this subject. In my experience it is much easier to get the most out of these if there are not too many suggested at once. All these suggestions will be pleasant and rewarding. The idea is that we get a sense of joy and contentment and also a sense of satisfaction as we begin to reap the rewards.

I am fortunate enough to remember how life was before the Internet. There were lots of housewives back then. They enjoyed their homes and their family life.  They didn’t work at the pace of today where there is no time to think or sit down with a cup of tea and a bit of knitting or to write a real letter to a real friend (as opposed to a quick text or posting a selfie to your Instagram page).

1. Get good at what you do by getting off the internet 

We all know deep down that the internet, particularly social media is now engineered towards getting you addicted. That’s why we can’t get off it. Notifications and toxic news especially are giving us high levels of anxiety and stress. We are so frazzled that it’s hard to think straight. We begin to react to everything instead of pausing, before deciding the best way to respond sensibly to a particular situation.

But as we have observed, getting off the internet is not a simple matter  The anxiety stays with us for a quite a while when we switch off from all the fast stuff on our screens. We have to think first about what everyone did when there was no internet at all. When there were no mobile phones. 

So my first suggestion is to think about things you enjoy, or might like to try, that are mainly home-based, and don’t involve screen time. 

Could it be baking or cooking and making simple but delicious meals or cookies for the family?

Perhaps, reading a real, physical book from your bookshelf.

Taking up crochet, knitting, a bit of sewing, making cards, drawing, or other craft you can do at home. 

Could you start a little bit of a garden?

Listen to relaxing classical music or learn about the great composers.

(Have you noticed a problem about these suggestions? Hmmm. How can you learn to get good at any of these if you don’t go on the internet? )

I suggest that you don’t have to get immediate answers. Don’t go straight to Google or YouTube for your answers. Think a bit about how pre-internet society learned these things. One extremely popular way they learned things was to go to the local library. They are usually free, and they can order books from other libraries for you too. Libraries can be addictive but in such a nice way! 

Be intentional about what you go online for. For instance, once a week I go  onto YouTube specifically to watch the new video by the channel Frugal Money saver. The link to this channel is at the top right on this blog. Or go to YouTube directly and type Frugal Money Saver Channel into the search bar. Have your notebook and pen ready to note down ideas and recipes you like and check out the wonderful comments under the videos posted by viewers 

Trot along to a thrift store or charity shop. Here you can often discover helpful books. (Vintage are usually better than modern). Old style cookery books especially the hardbacks are illustrated so beautifully and you can browse them at home like magazines. You can also often find craft supplies like yarn and fabric.

Get to know your neighbours. Many neighbours already have experience of the pre-internet activities that you want to learn, and would be happy to talk and show you about them. 

Another way to learn is almost lost art. And that is to think it out yourself. Try out ideas, and make notes about what works and what you want to tweak for next time. This is the way many people learned to do things in the past and it gives tremendous confidence over time. For instance, many mothers and homemakers could sew clothes and bake cakes without using a pattern or recipe book.

Most of the things listed above will be very inexpensive. By doing these things you will be less likely to go internet shopping, or impulse buy, of run out for entertainment outside the home. You will already begin to save a lot of money.

Until next time, thank you for joining me today. 

Please leave a comment. I would love to hear from you. 

 

Simple Sewing. Couple of small projects and a surprise for me!

 Thank you for joining me today,

I am continuing to find ways to use up the small pieces of fabric in my box. 

I had a dark blue strip of cotton and wondered what to do with it. A while ago I had knitted a cosy for our cafetière. It had begun to stretch slightly, so I decided to line the inside of the cosy with the fabric. This would give it strength and help insulate the coffee better.

First, I pressed the fabric under a damp cloth to get any creases out. N

Next, I folded over a quarter of an inch on all sides, and then folded them over again a quarter of an inch. I gave another press with the iron for nice crisply folded edges. 

Then I lay the Fabric on top of the wrong side of the cafetière. The  hems are facing the cosy so you won’t see them. I carefully hand stitched the fabric to the cosy.

This little bag/purse is for my granddaughter. I had some small bits of bee printed fabric to give a bit more interest. It was a case of folding the fabric in different ways to see what style I could come up with. I folded in a section as you can see to curve the edges at the bottom.

I think my little granddaughter will love her bag. Next time I would remove some of the bulky edges as they were difficult for my machine to get through. I overstitched the curved edges by hand and that came out nicely.

The surprise 

Just as I was almost out of fabric in my box, A friend emailed me to say she was having a clear out of her fabrics and hopefully I wouldn’t mind, but she has sent me three packages of fat quarters, and various offcuts of cotton fabric, large and small!

It looks like I am going to be sewing again very soon.

Knitting. Jean Greenhowe Free Toy Knitting Patterns

 

Here is my William the Snowman, finished today. He will be a Christmas Present for my grandson.

If you enjoy knitting toys, here is the free pattern you can download from Jean Greenhowe. There are quite a few others too.

 The late Jean Greenhowe designed the most delightful, simple, easy to use toy patterns. She was beloved by many knitters, and her famous booklets are still available to purchase also.

https://jeangreenhowe.com/patterns.html 

Simple sewing. Hemmed table mat

Recently I have been wanting to use up the little pieces of fabric I have. I don’t have much fabric at all, but am planning to sew some simple dresses and maybe a skirt or two in the future. I will be buying fabric for each project as I go, which is a nice calm way to go about things.

A housewife’s fabrics are resources, to be enjoyed - and used. Otherwise they can cease to be a resource, and morph into burdens, that will not benefit us.

I began to look at my unused or half used fat quarters, one at a time. There was an attractive green floral FQ in the box which seemed a good place to start

The above planning sketch was not intended to be a work of art 😊 

I used a hot iron on the steam setting,  to press all the creases out, then folded over about a quarter of an inch on all sides once. Then folded  over again and pressed to get a nice crisp fold

At this point I could have hand stitched along the hems, but decided to use my old Bernina mini-matic sewing machine to sew them, on the straight stitch setting. Then I pressed all around again to “set the stitches”. 

I hope to post more simple projects if you find them interesting 

You Don’t Need a Schedule

You Don't Need a Schedule.

Do you need a schedule to observe a flower's bloom?
To rest your eyes on soft blue skies,  or hum a happy tune?
Is a grand plan necessary to read that cheering book?
Or at a golden setting sun , to stop and have a look?
Or wear that lovely floral skirt  that makes you feel so pretty?
- You only need a schedule for the boring and the gritty!

The world of work must use them, along with motivation
to knuckle down (and pray that it's soon time for your vacation),
The world of work demands  we work at such relentless pace
No time to think of life and love, no respite and no grace.

But housewife dear, the thing is clear
Our natural way is not
to rush and push and stress ourselves
until we're super hot!

Slow down and smell the coffee! The home-made cakes and pies
And see a pretty, tidy home, appear before your eyes.
Read stories to the children and listen to their worry
Mummy makes it better when she isn't in a hurry,
Greet dear hubby at the door, the man you love and married,
You cannot do these things at work, or if you're rushed and harried.

You do not need a schedule to love your housewife day,
There is no rush - it does get done, and you'll have time to play,
Many joys await you and contented moments too,
But don't expect the world to understand the things you do.
Turn off the computer, and the mobile and TV,
Take time, enjoy and potter round - and have a cup of tea! 

ⓒ Lesley Bambridge 2018

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Strange Perceptions

Strange Perceptions

Years ago, you would often hear or read of people saying things like 'When I was a child, I thought we were rich, until I grew up and realised that we had had very little money'


Soon, I think we will begin to hear and read the opposite from our grown children. They will say 'I always assumed that we were  poor when I was young, until I grew up and realised we had had quite a lot of money'



And right now, adults seem to have very strange perceptions of what is rich and what is poor...

Time to dig the snow

Is it poor to be able to be at home and spend quality time with your own children?

Little rich kid?

  Will he look back with fondness on his expensive games and videos and cupboards full of toys - and parents absent, or simply too busy?

Is this a poor family sitting around the table together?

Would it be richer to dash into a busy fast food outlet, and feast on their 'wholesome' fare?

Is having the time to think about dinner and do the shopping an impoverishing experience?

 Poverty? - having to hang the washing on the line on this lovely day, with baby out here in the fresh air.

 Perhaps 40+ hours a week of this is rich and contenting?

 Will she feel that she was poor because mummy was there when she was ill?

Or perhaps she would feel richer in the day care?

 No expenses spared holiday?

 Or a peaceful romantic walk that costs hugely less?






A wife at home, enjoying her home, spending time with the one she loves, can have a richer life.

Banish the. Morning Kitchen Blues

Housewife Tips: Banish the Morning Kitchen Blues

A kitchen you like to spend time in.

You don't have to face this kind of kitchen.





 The Housewifely Haven is all about enjoying the wonderful, peaceful world of contented homemaking. Here you will find tips that cost nothing and that will make a big difference in your day. The only requirement to this kind of contentment is that you do not rush things, and that you spend time pottering in your home.

The way to banish the morning kitchen blues is to gradually build tiny routines and habits into your life at home. They are so small as to be easily managed, but will reap big rewards.

Begin by making small preparations the afternoon or evening before (not too late). These preparations can be:

I don't know what you have for breakfast, but let us imagine that you begin with cooked porridge (oats). While you are cooking the tea/dinner the evening before, put a saucepan on the hob, and place the amount of oats you will need inside the pan. Put the lid on top to keep it clean and dry. Place your morning cutlery and bowls ready. Think about what food will be eaten. Is there food in the fridge that needs using up? Eggs, bacon or those few last mushrooms? While you sip your after dinner coffee, have a think about what you will do. Anything you can prepare earlier will make your morning easier. As you get more practiced, you will find new ideas pop into your mind that you can try.

In the evening after tea, put the things for your morning drink on a tray, ready to take upstairs . 
A husband going off to work, will have a calm morning and unhurried breakfast which will set him up for the day. What a difference that will make for the one you love : )

As you cook the breakfast, use a brush and rinse out any pans as soon as you have used them. Make a routine of rinsing off dirty dishes as soon as they are used. Put them in hot soapy water or in the dishwasher in a rinsed condition. Also, give a swipe over the hob and counters with a soapy cloth, and then wipe the sink with a dry cloth. Rinse the soapy cloths before pegging onto a small washing line to blow dry. Wipe over your toaster and kettle with your dry cloth.

Give your husband a kiss as he leaves, and maybe even a quick brush over his jacket with a handy clothes brush, kept by the door.
Whether you have children at home or not, make a routine of coffee or tea for yourself with a snack, at least by mid-morning; maybe using this as a time to think about your plan for the day.

Remember - do not rush. Pottering pace is the more efficient and contenting in the long run. Enjoy the peace and health of the contented housewife. Instead of feeling the blues, you'll be tickled pink with your morning kitchen.